These Precious Moments: Day 24 ~ Books As “Comfort Food”…

Not long ago I wrote about the amazing time in my life when I had met and become friends with the writer who was a mentor and muse through her books and became a dear friend until the end of her life in the summer of 1995. The writer was May Sarton. It was a time I could never have imagined, and one of the most cherished experiences of my life. But apart from actually getting to know May, it was her books that had sustained me for many years.

May was a poet, a novelist, and in her later years became famous for her journals. She had published a memoir, Plant Dreaming Deep, and because she wrote about leaving the world to buy and restore a home in the country and live a life of solitude as a writer people idealized her and the life she had written about. She was not happy with this because, as she often said, it was not a life to be idealized. Living alone was hard, it could be lonely and very painful. She had rages and difficult times. And yes, good times, but she wanted to present a clearer picture about what her life was really all about. She wrote the first of what would be many volumes of journals, Journal of a Solitude, and after having written since she was in her 20’s, a great many books, and never finding the fame she hoped for, it came, finally, with the journals.

I love May’s poetry, and many of her novels have become very special to me, but it is her journals that have saved me, inspired me, sustained me, and which I have taught over decades in my own journal writing classes. I return to them again and again, for comfort, for solace, they are truly “comfort food” for me, and since the hurricane, and this last awful week dealing with Delilah’s injury, I have clung to these books in my spare moments. Yesterday I pulled a number of her books off of my shelves, the ones you see above. I am currently rereading “At Seventy,” one of my favorite of her journals, but I love them all. I am about to start over with Plant Dreaming Deep and read my way through all of the journals. It is like returning home after a long absence. I need to “plant my dreaming deep.” This was the epigraph from that book, a few lines from May’s poem, “After Du Bellay”…

“Happy the man who can long roaming reap,
Like old Ulysses when he shaped his course
Homeward at last toward the native source,
Seasoned and stretched to plant his dreaming deep.”

At 64 it is time to gather the dreams of a lifetime and plant them deep, below everything, to let them sprout and spring forth into what they might become to see me forward into this phase of my life, autumn into winter, when we still have time to dream, to plant, and to plan for new things, but there isn’t a moment to waste, we are no longer young, the time is now.

As I look at this stack of books I feel so tender. I have read and reread them all. Some were gifts from May, all of them touched me deeply, enriched my life, taught me what I needed to learn at critical junctures. All felt like home to me. And as I move into this next phase of my life I feel like the answers that I seek, the map to how to move forward, the keys to what I need to understand, are here in these books.

The last Sunday Night Writing Group class that I taught centered around the work of May Sarton. I have already told my students that the next couple of classes will be centered on Sarton’s work as well. I want, so much, to share these books with my students. For now, I will revel in them, let them feed and comfort me. These books are home to me. It’s good to be home.